Somebody wisely said, “We are only concerned about weddings, and not about marriage.” Indeed marriage is one relationship which can take us to the ecstasy of paradise, and it can push us into the deepest hell. Knowing how marital relationship affects not only husband and wife, but also the children, we need to give much more attention to nurturing, strengthening and directing the marital bond at every stage of life.
I have been working extensively on this issue at a practical level with couples of all ages. I have presented it in a small booklet for those intending to marry, or those who wish to help youngsters enter into matrimony with the right expectations, called “Preparing for Marriage.” I am also open to anyone who wishes to improve their relationship, not necessarily when it is going bad or becoming difficult.
The reality is that we can actually follow some proven techniques on connecting at man-woman level and thus ensure that the whole family benefits from the harmony and love that it spreads.
I truly wish we all get together and help each other in better understanding and handling of this most important relationship.