While most of us do understand the significance and importance of communication, let us also reflect on “Purpose of Communication”. Whenever you start a communication, whether with an individual or with a group, be clear on what you wish to achieve.
I am a strong believer that communication and the way you relate to people, is the most important single factor that determines your success as a life skills trainer. Be clear about the purpose of your communication at that moment with that particular audience. Are you communicating:
- To inform
- To convince
- To inspire and provoke thinking
- To impress
- To entertain
- To defend yourself
- To preach
- To build better relationship
- To pass time fruitfully
Often you will need to switch from one context to the other. Keep your awareness clear and you will be very effective. Similarly be aware of your ‘Para-language’ i.e. volume, rate of speaking, tone, pitch and inflection. See how emphasis on one word can change the meaning of your communication – You want me to go?
You want me to go?
You want me to go?
You want me to go?
You want me to go?
Happy Communicating
–Ali