Author: Banjara Academy

Aab and the Illusion of Power

Aab is amazed how seriously people take themselves, their position and their work.  People occupying seats of authority, passing orders, taking vital decisions that move millions of rupees on one signature. People whose presence makes their subordinates snap to attention, and people whose office tables are often bigger than the…

Managing Anger (not suppressing)

If you lose your temper,don’t try to find it. All strong emotions need outlets, particularly anger, because it is the most destructive emotion. It stems from unfulfilled desire (rooted in fear, helplessness), and often rational thinking is lost. Too much anger can lead to a personality disorder; whereas frivolous anger…

Minister for Loneliness

UK did it in 2018.Now Japan has also appointed a “Minister for Loneliness”.I am sure some people still laugh at this concept or may ignore it, but I have been cautioning for the past twenty years that the greatest epidemic we are facing in the twenty-first century is the Epidemic…

Marital fidelity

The marital relationship differs from all others in two ways: (1) Sex and procreation, and (2) Expectations. Most people enter into wedlock with full commitment, to acquire a ‘life partner’. Unfortunately many of us receive no training, guidance or exposure on how to deal with this relationship that is expected…

Do you love children ?

Children of the twenty first century are completely different from earlier ones.  If you love children you need to understand in depth their needs, their thinking process, their approach to life and how to ensure their happiness and holistic growth to become productive members of society. Charles Darwin said: “It…