Be An Independent Thinker - Avoid Herd Mentality

A "consensus" or collective decision usually means that everyone has agreed to say collectively what no one believes individually – since a Committee is defined as "a group that keeps minutes and loses hours".

Are you an independent thinker, or do you take shelter under numbers, saying things like "everyone agreed to it", or "so many others are saying the same thing"? There is a tremendous shortage of independent thinkers. George Bernard Shaw said something like "a few people are very unreasonable .... I wish there were more of them."

I'm not asking you to become a revolutionary, or to rebel against the whole world. Remember that your thoughts are the only aspect of your life that not even the most powerful dictator can control. If you give up this control to others, just because they are larger in numbers, or because you feel safer in belonging to a group, then you are insulting your intelligence – and maybe heading towards deep disappointment and regret some time in life.

However busy you are in life, try to develop the habit of being Proactive. Have your own mind, listen, evaluate, analyze, but do not go with the "herd mentality" of getting swayed by something just because many people are saying it. In this age of media bombardment, protect yourself from the tsunami trying to control your mind .... your last refuge.